Unhappy in your current state? Do you want to change your life? Here is some advice you won’t like, but that you need to hear. Most of us feel that way at some point in life. The key is to not allow this current state to be your permanent state. It’s temporary, as long as YOU take control and do something about it. Yep, YOU. No one is coming to save you. You have to be your own hero.
I know there are lots and lots of excuses about why you can’t. Everyone has excuses. There are some legit things that might slow you down, but they don’t have to stop you. It’s a CHOICE to give up and it’s a choice to push through the hard stuff. I can hear you now, “But you don’t understand….” I do understand. I understand it’s hard to push through. I understand it’s easier not to go all in and really try. I understand it is easier to complain than do something about it. I understand staying small and invisible is easier. I understand it’s easier to research solutions than to act on them. I understand it is easier to put everyone else’s needs above your own. I understand time constraints. I understand money constraints. I understand the struggle. I understand.
You don’t have to do everything at once. It’s ok to go at your own pace. What is not ok, is not acting. Figure out where you want to be, and start taking action. I promise you, no matter what situation you are in, there is something you can do to improve it. Listen again, something YOU CAN do. No one else, just you.
You are capable of doing hard things and you are going to prove it by doing it. Figure out where you want to be and do something about it. Where there is a will there is always a way.
Now, what is YOUR first step going to be?
Until next time,